He has had another year being stable .. no increase in meds .. or outbursts or psyhotic episodes--- this is good @Appleblossom xx

and like @Zahlia, said to me , it is what is working at the moment in  my hubby`s life ,

as for me I have grown over the last year , i am still learning, still lots of "what about me " in there , emotions, and phsyical , one stp at a time