Hello @PeppyPatti
I can understand the lies! My Mother had this amazing ability to turn on a second! A knock on the door and she became a controlled, welcoming, social person who could have food and tea on the table in 30 minutes playing the hostess with aplomb! Visitors leave, the virago was back as soon as they were out of hearing! How? I can’t do that and never could!
today I had to see GP but keep falling asleep otherwise! So tired!
looking forward to bed! Lucky I Prefroze many dinners before hospital so I don’t have to cook!
thanks for your response- it’s heartening to share experience in common! I don’t know about you, but the number of people who have never believed that it was my mother who was the perpetrator of domestic violence in our house! Your father must have given her a reason I was told! Yes she had her own history but yes, even when help became available, she refused it!
I’ just glad I could be at peace eventually and not tormented by her criticisms directed as “love”. The favourite child! My daughter come to visit as she wiped my sister aside! But I didn’t know how to care! I wasn’t worth helping! I didn’t understand communication and on and on! A basic failure in so many ways but nice to go for a coffee with my sister and laugh about the insanity of it all once I learned to let go!
enjoy your quilts! I love my card making! It is so therapeutic to make something, anything creative! I need to move or I will be asleep again! Good night all
@Doldip15
