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27-02-2020 04:20 PM
27-02-2020 04:20 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
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27-02-2020 05:28 PM
27-02-2020 05:28 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Haha @Former-Member I was waiting for the edit 😁👍
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01-03-2020 09:21 PM
01-03-2020 09:21 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Have had some old emotions re triggered / surfaced today.
Found out by social media that someone I know passed away recently. (No one close).
Reading between the lines of the statement it seems it may have been by choice. At least that is how I have perceived it.
Makes me grateful that my darling is still with us despite her desire at times to be otherwise 😞
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07-03-2020 04:14 PM
07-03-2020 04:14 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
How are you feeling today @Determined ?
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07-03-2020 08:58 PM
07-03-2020 08:58 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Not too flash atm @Former-Member
Cycling between depressed and incredibly anxious.
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07-03-2020 09:08 PM
07-03-2020 09:08 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Just need to suck it up.
It will pass like it has before.
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07-03-2020 09:32 PM
07-03-2020 09:32 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Sending gentle thoughts your way @Determined, trust things settle for you soon.
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09-03-2020 08:22 PM - edited 10-03-2020 07:53 AM
09-03-2020 08:22 PM - edited 10-03-2020 07:53 AM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Still feeling terrible.
Have a go app tomorrow. Not that she can do anything other than listen.
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09-03-2020 08:32 PM - edited 10-03-2020 07:54 AM
09-03-2020 08:32 PM - edited 10-03-2020 07:54 AM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Weather is really getting to me.
With all of the roof issues we have had it really is making me anxious despite no evidence of ongoing problems.
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15-03-2020 06:49 PM
15-03-2020 06:49 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Darling confided this ave that she is not doing so well. I have been wary but trying to remain positive. One of our boys have also said that they are worried.
Does not help that I am also on a down hill slide. Currently contemplating dropping out of uni. Or at least taking a break for a semester or 2. Need to be on top of things for the family and can't afford to not be coping with day to day activities.